Creating Parents FAQ Section
1. What inspired the creation of CreatingParents.com?
Creating Parents was inspired by the increasing demand for co-parenting partnerships during the pandemic when fertility clinics were closed, and opportunities to meet new people were limited. Created by multi-award-winning matchmaker Gillian McCallum, the platform aims to help individuals find co-parenting arrangements and assist existing parents in finding partners to help raise their children.
2. How is Creating Parents different from traditional dating sites?
Creating Parents differs from traditional dating sites by focusing on the shared desire for children and prioritising long-term compatibility for parenting. The platform is designed to help people find co-parenting partners, sperm donors, and surrogates, emphasising the importance of compatibility and shared values in potential matches.
3. How do I create a profile on Creating Parents?
To create a profile, click the "apply now" link and add your personal details. In order to be considered for membership, we require more information than traditional dating sites usually request. We take our responsibilities in helping you build a family extremely seriously. Please note that we are currently in pre-registration.
4. Can existing parents register on Creating Parents?
Yes, existing parents are welcome to register if they are seeking co-parenting arrangements or looking to expand their family by using a sperm donor or surrogate. Single mums, dads, and non-binary parents are always welcome.
5. What types of relationships does Creating Parents cater to?
Creating Parents caters to various types of relationships, including platonic and romantic co-parenting partnerships, as well as connections for sperm donation and surrogacy. We welcome single parents who wish to meet a platonic or romantic coparent. As a single parent dating, it is great to know that your potential partner wants children in their life too. If you are in an existing relationship, you may also be looking for a co parent to help with supporting your children's growth and development. We welcome all family types, providing that children and their current/future health, care and wellbeing is at the forefront of your decision making in coming to us.
6. How do I search for potential co-parents on Creating Parents?
You can search for potential co-parents based on specific criteria, but we believe it is really important that you prioritise your long-term compatibility and shared values over superficial qualities. Consider lifestyle compatibility and parenting styles when evaluating potential matches. After all, you are here to pick your new best friend. And when did you last do that on the basis of looks, height or weight? Personality, outlook, values and shared goals is more important than any of the other criteria.
7. How can I connect with potential co-parents on Creating Parents?
Connecting with potential romantic or platonic co-parents is simple. Once you have completed your profile, you will go live on the site and have the opportunity to connect with other members. Keep your search parameters broad to avoid discounting eligible people for superficial reasons. Please note we are currently in pre-registration, you will be notified as soon as we launch near you.
8. What personal information is visible on my Creating Parents profile?
Your first name and picture are visible on the platform, but your full name is not displayed. Your picture and name are verified with your ID to ensure our profiles are 100% genuine.
9. How does Creating Parents protect user privacy?
Creating Parents is proudly GDPR compliant and takes its user privacy seriously. We implement strict verification procedures to prevent data breaches and ensure the trustworthiness and online safety of our users.
10. How can I report inappropriate behaviour on Creating Parents?
A report button is available on each profile page for reporting inappropriate behaviour. It is important to keep communication on our site for as long as possible, as we are unable to adjudicate bad behaviour off-site. While it is tempting to move to whatsapp, or messenger, we would encourage you to keep your conversations online with us, until the point where you wish to move forwards. This is for your personal safety. Never ever give money to someone you meet on our site. There is no reason for a financial transaction to take place, other than at fertility clinics etc. This should be done after a legal agreement has been made.11. How should I determine if a potential co-parent is a good match?
Focus on long-term compatibility and shared values when determining if a potential co-parent is a good match. Consider whether their parenting style and lifestyle are compatible with yours, and if they would be a good friend and partner in raising a child. We have a huge range of co-parenting blogs that can provide support and advice as well as interviews with experts in their field, where you can learn more.
12. What resources does Creating Parents offer to help users navigate co-parenting?
Our platform provides numerous resources to help users navigate legal issues, understand different aspects of co-parenting, and access professional advice. We offer educational materials, blogs, interviews with professionals and advisors in this area, and legal forms (at an additional cost). However, we would always encourage you to seek out your own legal help prior to entering into an agreement, this is not a casual decision on your part, and can have multiple financial, and personal ramifications if legal counsel is not taken. In addition, you may find it helpful to engage the services of a therapist to help guide you.
13. Can I find a co-parent for my existing children on Creating Parents?
Yes, Creating Parents welcomes individuals who are looking for co-parents for their existing children. We understand the importance of finding the right partner to help raise your children and offer resources to support you in this journey.
14. Are there any success stories from Creating Parents users?
As a newly launched platform, we are currently in the pre-registration stage. However, we are excited to see the connections and success stories that will emerge as our community grows. We want you to be a success story that we are proud to share if you wish us to. More importantly, we want to do all we can to support you in changing your life, for the better, forever.
15. How does Creating Parents handle user enquiries and support?
Most of your questions should be answered in this FAQ section, however we do have a small, friendly team who are dedicated to handling any client issues you may have. We want you to have a positive experience on our site, and we hope that our system is intuitive enough that you are able to support you in your journey to parenthood and building your family.
16. What are the costs associated with using Creating Parents?
Registration on Creating Parents is free, but there may be additional costs for accessing premium features and resources. We believe that requiring payment for certain features encourages users to take the process seriously and invest in their co-parenting journey. Pre-registration is open now.
17. How does Creating Parents ensure the safety of its users?
We take our responsibilities incredibly seriously. Children are the most vulnerable members of our society, and it is our job to do all we can to safeguard them, in our limited role as a platform where potential parents can meet one another. Within the limits of what we are capable of, we prioritise user safety by implementing a rigorous ID check and requiring users to use their real first names in profiles. This verification process helps maintain a secure and trustworthy environment for all members.
18. What additional services does Creating Parents offer?
We provide email newsletters, Q&A sessions, interviews with leading experts in fertility, sperm donation, parenting, etc etc. that our clients are invited to attend. We are launching coaching courses next year. Our sister company, the CoParenting Agency provides matchmaking services in London and Amsterdam for those who prefer a more bespoke, supported approach.
19. How does Creating Parents promote non-traditional family structures?
We embrace non-traditional family structures and aim to create a supportive community for people with diverse backgrounds and preferences. We believe that the love, commitment and respect of co-parents towards one another as well as towards surrogates and sperm donors, regardless of their relationship status, is vital in creating a nurturing environment for children.
20. How can I stay updated on Creating Parents news and developments?
By registering on our website, you will receive email updates on our latest news, events, and resources. We also encourage users to follow our social media channels and regularly visit our website for the most up-to-date information.
21. Can I find a co-parent who lives in a different country?
While our initial focus is on London, Amsterdam, California, and New York, our goal is to provide our service globally. As our community grows, we hope to connect co-parents from various countries and backgrounds, fostering a diverse and inclusive network of families.
22. What are the main features of Creating Parents?
The main features of Creating Parents include the ability to communicate safely with other users, an in-depth profile creation process, ID checks, and access to a wealth of educational materials and resources to support users in their co-parenting journey.
23. How can I provide feedback or suggestions to Creating Parents?
We value user feedback and encourage you to share your thoughts, suggestions, and experiences with our team. You can reach out to us through the help centre or by emailing our support team directly. Your input helps us improve our platform
24. Are there any age restrictions for using Creating Parents?
While we understand that people of various ages may be interested in co-parenting, our platform is designed for people who are aged 21 and older. This minimum age requirement ensures a level of maturity and responsibility among our users. Jack Weinberg famously said "never trust anyone over 30", while we definitely don’t believe that, we do believe that you should take your time in the selection of a potential co-parent.
25. How can I improve my chances of finding a compatible co-parent on Creating Parents?
To improve your chances of finding a compatible co-parent, create a detailed and honest profile, actively engage with other users, and keep an open mind when evaluating potential matches. Prioritise long-term compatibility, shared values, and parenting styles over superficial qualities.
26. What should I consider when creating my Creating Parents profile?
When creating your profile, provide accurate and honest information about yourself, your background, and your co-parenting preferences. A well-crafted profile will help attract compatible matches and set the foundation for a successful co-parenting partnership. Please use recent photographs of yourself, and while you are not selecting on the basis of looks, it is important to have a clear picture of yourself. Please avoid group shots, and do not include any pictures of your childs face for the online privacy and security of your child.
27. How can I prepare for meeting a potential co-parent in person?
Before meeting a potential co-parent in person, engage in thorough conversations to understand their values and parenting style. When you decide to meet, choose a public location and inform a trusted friend or family member of your plans.
28. What are some challenges that co-parents may face, and how can Creating Parents help?
Co-parents may face challenges such as communication, decision-making, and balancing responsibilities. Creating Parents offers resources and educational materials to help users navigate these challenges and build a strong co-parenting foundation.
29. Can I find LGBTQ+ co-parents on Creating Parents?
Creating Parents is an inclusive platform that welcomes LGBTQ+ individuals seeking co-parenting arrangements. We are committed to connecting people of diverse backgrounds and preferences in a supportive community.
30. Can I use Creating Parents if I have specific medical or fertility concerns?
While Creating Parents does not provide medical advice, our platform can help you connect with co-parents, sperm donors, and surrogates who may be understanding and supportive of your unique situation.
31. How does Creating Parents handle disputes between co-parents?
Although we encourage our users to resolve disputes amicably, Creating Parents does not mediate conflicts between co-parents. We recommend seeking professional legal advice and support when dealing with co-parenting disputes.
32. Are background checks conducted on Creating Parents users?
While we do not conduct extensive background checks, we require users to undergo an ID verification process to ensure profile authenticity. Users are encouraged to conduct their own research and exercise caution when engaging with potential co-parents.
33. How can I manage my communication preferences on Creating Parents?
You can manage your communication preferences by adjusting your notification settings within your account. This allows you to control the types of updates and messages you receive from Creating Parents.
34. How can I delete my Creating Parents account?
To delete your account, visit your account settings and follow the instructions for account deletion. Please note that deleting your account will remove your profile and all associated information from our platform.
35. Can I temporarily disable my Creating Parents account?
Yes, you can temporarily disable your account by adjusting your account settings. Disabling your account will hide your profile from other users but will not delete your information. You can reactivate your account at any time.
36. How do I report technical issues on Creating Parents?
If you experience technical issues while using Creating Parents, please contact our support team through the help center or by emailing us directly. We are committed to resolving technical issues promptly and ensuring a seamless user experience.
37. Can I suggest new features or improvements for Creating Parents?
We welcome user suggestions for new features or improvements. Please share your ideas with our support team, and we will consider implementing them to enhance the Creating Parents experience.
38. How does Creating Parents handle inactive or abandoned accounts?
Inactive or abandoned accounts are periodically reviewed by our team. If an account remains inactive for an extended period, we may reach out to the user to confirm their interest in maintaining their profile. If there is no response, we may eventually remove the account to ensure an active and engaged user base.
39. Can I block or unblock users on Creating Parents?
Yes, you can block or unblock users on Creating Parents by visiting their profile and selecting the appropriate option. Blocking a user will prevent them from viewing your profile or contacting you through the platform.
40. Can I recommend Creating Parents to a friend or family member?
We appreciate recommendations and encourage you to share Creating Parents with friends, family members, or anyone you believe could benefit from our platform. Word-of-mouth referrals are invaluable for growing our community and helping more people achieve their dreams of parenthood.
41. How can I learn about co-parenting legalities in my country or region?
Creating Parents provides general legal resources and educational materials for users to better understand co-parenting legalities. However, we strongly recommend consulting with a local family law attorney to discuss your specific situation and legal requirements.
42. Can I find a co-parent who shares my religious beliefs or cultural background?
Creating Parents aims to connect users with diverse backgrounds and preferences, including those who share similar religious beliefs or cultural backgrounds. By providing accurate information in your profile and specifying your preferences, you can increase your chances of finding a compatible co-parent who aligns with your values.
43. How can I share my Creating Parents success story with others?
We love hearing about our users' success stories! If you've found a co-parenting partner through Creating Parents, please reach out to our support team or share your story on social media using our official hashtags. We may even feature your story on our website or in our promotional materials.
44. Can I access Creating Parents on my mobile device?
Yes, Creating Parents is designed to be mobile-friendly, allowing you to access our platform on various devices, including smartphones and tablets.
45. How can I recover my Creating Parents account if I forget my password?
If you forget your password, click the "Forgot Password" link on the login page and follow the instructions to reset your password. You will need access to the email address associated with your account to complete the password reset process.
46. How do I change my email address or other personal information on Creating Parents?
To change your email address or update other personal information, visit your settings and make the necessary changes. Be sure to save your updates to ensure your information is accurate and up-to-date.
47. How can I improve my communication skills to foster better co-parenting relationships?
Improving your communication skills can greatly enhance your co-parenting relationships. Practise active listening, expressing your thoughts and feelings clearly, and being open to constructive feedback. Creating Parents offers resources, articles, and expert advice to help users develop effective communication skills for successful co-parenting. The more talking you do before you embark on your journey together, the more likely that relationship will succeed.
48. Can I attend events or workshops organised by Creating Parents?
Creating Parents occasionally organises events, workshops, and webinars to help users expand their knowledge, connect with others, and develop skills related to co-parenting. By subscribing to our email updates and following our social media channels, you can stay informed about upcoming events and opportunities to engage with the Creating Parents community.
49. Do I have sex with a sperm donor?
Absolutely NOT. If you find a sperm donor who is compatible, please contact a fertility clinic near you. Some sperm donors claim that you are more likely to get pregnant if they have sex with you. This is not true. Even if you meet them here, on our site, it is vital that you take some basic safety precautions. This includes not inviting a stranger into your home. If the sperm donor is serious about helping you start or grow your family, they will not insist on having sex with you and will be more than happy to go to a fertility clinic. Do not put yourself in a vulnerable situation.
If you have any further questions or need additional information, please don't hesitate to reach out to our support team. We're here to help you on your journey to creating a happy, successful co-parenting partnership.